The Connection Compass

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Compass Issue #10 — Listening Without Defending

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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Apr 23, 2026
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When your spouse says something difficult, the instinct is often to explain, correct, or defend yourself.

But even well-meaning defenses can make your spouse feel unheard.

In this Compass Issue, you’ll learn how listening without defending can reduce tension, help your spouse feel heard, and create a safer space for communication.

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