The Connection Compass

The Connection Compass

Compass Issues

Compass Issue #13 — Conflict Without Escalation

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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
May 14, 2026
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Conflict isn’t the problem most couples think it is.

It’s not whether conflict happens — it’s what happens during it that determines whether the relationship grows or breaks down.

In this Compass Issue, you’ll learn how to approach conflict in a way that reduces escalation, protects connection, and prevents small disagreements from becoming larger problems.

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