The Connection Compass

The Connection Compass

Compass Issues

Compass Issue #31 — Do More of What Helps

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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Sep 18, 2026
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Sometimes the next step in your marriage isn’t finding something new to try.

It’s noticing what already helps...

and doing a little more of it.

In this Compass Issue, we’ll explore a simple shift that can change how you approach your marriage: instead of constantly searching for what’s wrong and how to fix it, start identifying the conditions that make connection easier, and create more of them.

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