The Connection Compass

The Connection Compass

Compass Issues

Compass Issue #4 — Ending the Criticism Habit

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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Mar 12, 2026
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When a marriage feels strained, criticism often becomes part of everyday conversation.

Unfortunately, criticism rarely motivates change.

More often, it creates distance.

In this Compass Issue, you’ll learn why criticism damages connection and three simple shifts that can help you communicate concerns without increasing defensiveness.

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