The Connection Compass

The Connection Compass

Compass Issues

Compass Issue #5 — The Pressure Cycle

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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Mar 19, 2026
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When a marriage feels uncertain, many people try harder to fix it.

They talk more.
Push for answers.
Ask for reassurance.

Ironically, that effort can sometimes make the distance grow.

In this Compass Issue, we’ll explore the Pressure Cycle — the pattern where one partner’s urgency creates resistance in the other — and how reducing pressure can begin shifting the emotional climate of the relationship.

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