The Connection Compass

The Connection Compass

Compass Issues

Compass Issue #9 — The Curiosity Shift

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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Apr 16, 2026
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When a marriage feels strained, it’s easy to assume you know what your spouse is thinking.

Those assumptions are often wrong — and they can quietly increase distance.

In this Compass Issue, you’ll learn how shifting from assumptions to curiosity can reduce misunderstandings, lower defensiveness, and create space for better connection.

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