Try The Marriage Experiment
Ten years ago, Gary Chapman (the author of The 5 Love Languages) and I were talking about his ideas about marriage and his love languages. We struck up a conversation about a Marriage Experiment. It was simple and straightforward.
So much so, that we created a document for anyone wanting to give it a try.
And over the years, thousands have done so. Many, with great results.
Is it a miracle cure? No, it is not.
But it can help you frame your efforts so that when you are a bit discouraged, you can continue on.
“Why the experiment?”
Many people find they are working to save their marriage on their own, and often with a resistant spouse. So, the effort is one-sided. And over time, they feel the pressure of that one-sided effort. In particular, they feel the pain (YOU feel the pain) of not getting anything back.
This is actually a main reason (a failpoint) why people give up trying to save their marriage. They run out of steam and into pain. It is painful to not feel some love being returned.
Gary Chapman uses the term, love tank, as a way of thinking about your sense (feeling) of being loved. Is your tank full (and you feel loved)? Or is your tank empty (and you feel unloved)?
To continue the analogy from Gary (and I concur), you are trying to fill your spouse’s love tank, to restart the connection.
But what about your empty love tank?
That is the reason for the experiment!
”What is the experiment?”
At its core, the experiment is about choosing a specific timeframe, during which you will not have any expectation of your tank getting any filling. But you will continue your specific actions, in the hopes that, by the end of that timeframe, love is being reflected back to you. There is more to it. Which we cover in the training document.
”Okay, so what do I do now?”
Now, you jump into the experiment! Join the thousands who already have, and who saved their marriage.
>> GO HERE TO GRAB THE TRAINING DOCUMENT FOR THE MARRIAGE EXPERIMENT <<
And if you don’t have my System, you can find it >> RIGHT HERE <<.