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How Your Emotions Are Lying to You About Your Marriage
“I was never happy.
Jan 8 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Why Passion Fades (And How to Get It Back)
Remember when you couldn’t keep your hands off each other?
Jan 4 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD

December 2025

Here Comes National Divorce Day
When New Year Energy Takes the Wrong Turn
Dec 28, 2025 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Why Your Marriage Has Inertia
The Entropy Problem
Dec 21, 2025 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Why Everything You're Trying Isn't Working
The Constraint in Your Marriage
Dec 18, 2025 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The Relationship Thermostat
Why Your Marriage Keeps Returning to the Same Temperature
Dec 15, 2025 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The Physics of Marriage
What Quantum Mechanics Reveals About Drift
Dec 14, 2025 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The Hope Grid
Understanding the Hidden Dynamic That Shapes Your Marriage (And Saving It)
Dec 11, 2025 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Quiet Divorce: The New Buzzword for an Old Betrayal
“Quiet divorce” is everywhere right now.
Dec 7, 2025 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The Loop You’re In
How Marriages Move Toward Connection or Away From It
Dec 4, 2025 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD

November 2025

When the Holidays Hurt
Finding Hope in the Hardest Season
Nov 30, 2025 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The One Thing That Changes Everything
Why Gratitude Might Save Your Marriage
Nov 23, 2025 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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