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Compass Issue #29 — Give Change Room to Breathe
When you finally start doing things differently, it’s tempting to watch closely for results.
Sep 4
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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August 2026
Compass Issue #28 — Stop Keeping Score
You made the effort.
Aug 27
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Compass Issue #27 — Choosing Your Values
It’s easy to act with kindness when you feel connected.
Aug 20
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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The Compass Path
Finding Your Way Back to Connection
Aug 16
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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Compass Issue #26 — Don’t Leave Love Unspoken
One of the most common phrases I hear is:
Aug 13
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Stop Looking for the Turning Point. Start Looking for the Turning Direction.
Almost every conversation I have with someone trying to save their marriage eventually arrives at the same question, asked a dozen different ways.
Aug 9
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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Compass Issue #25 — The Journey You’re On
When you’re in the middle of trying to save your marriage, it’s easy to focus on what still isn’t where you want it to be.
Aug 6
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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The Most Dangerous Word in Marriage Isn’t “Divorce.” It’s “Eventually.”
Nobody’s marriage has ever been destroyed by the word divorce. By the time that word shows up, it’s not causing anything. It’s just naming what already…
Aug 2
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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July 2026
Compass Issue #24 — Guarding Your Connection
Most marriages don’t lose connection because people stop caring.
Jul 30
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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Your Marriage Isn’t Falling Apart Overnight — You’re Finally Seeing It
David remembers the exact sentence.
Jul 26
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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Compass Issue #23 — Creating a Culture of Connection
Every marriage has a culture.
Jul 23
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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Lost Is Not the Problem
When I was younger, I raced with two other guys in adventure races.
Jul 19
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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