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Why Everything You're Trying Isn't Working
The Constraint in Your Marriage
Dec 18 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The Relationship Thermostat
Why Your Marriage Keeps Returning to the Same Temperature
Dec 15 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The Physics of Marriage
What Quantum Mechanics Reveals About Drift
Dec 14 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The Hope Grid
Understanding the Hidden Dynamic That Shapes Your Marriage (And Saving It)
Dec 11 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Quiet Divorce: The New Buzzword for an Old Betrayal
“Quiet divorce” is everywhere right now.
Dec 7 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The Loop You’re In
How Marriages Move Toward Connection or Away From It
Dec 4 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD

November 2025

When the Holidays Hurt
Finding Hope in the Hardest Season
Nov 30 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The One Thing That Changes Everything
Why Gratitude Might Save Your Marriage
Nov 23 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The Shadow Side of Love Languages
When Connection Tools Become Control Tactics
Nov 20 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
"When Did We Hit Pause?"
(And How To Find Play Again)
Nov 18 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
When Fear Drives Control
What You Can and Cannot Control in Your Marriage
Nov 13 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Why Setbacks Feel Like Failure (And What They’re Really Telling You)
You’ve been doing everything right.
Nov 9 • Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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