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When Love Hurts: Why It’s Not Personal (Even When It Feels Like It Should Be)
How to protect your heart without disconnecting from the people you care about most
23 hrs ago
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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From Right/Wrong to Decided
How couples can move beyond adversarial thinking without losing their standards
Sep 5
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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Conflict Isn't the Problem: A Recovery Framework for Marriage
Why the fights aren't really the fight, and how to navigate back to connection
Sep 2
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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August 2025
When Marriage Advice Fails: It Isn’t You… It’s the Advice
The difference between transformation and temporary fixes in your relationship
Aug 28
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The Power of Steady
Why Consistency Outperforms Intensity in Saving Your Marriage
Aug 26
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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From Powerless to Pivotal
How to Lead Your Marriage When You Feel Like Nothing’s Working
Aug 22
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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The Control Trap
You Can't Control Your Spouse. But You Can Lead the Relationship
Aug 18
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
Handle Harder, Don’t Hit Harder
Why Growth in Marriage Means Getting Better at Responding, Not Just Reacting
Aug 14
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
When You’re the Only One Trying
(And How to Keep Going Without Losing Yourself)
Aug 12
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
How to Keep Going When the Turning Point Feels Invisible
Quiet Courage, Steady Steps, and the Slow Work of Change
Aug 10
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
The Turning Point No One Sees
Why Real Change in Marriage Often Starts Underground
Aug 6
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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"Is There Still Hope for Us?"
How to Know if Your Marriage Can Be Saved… And What to Do If You're the Only One Trying
Aug 1
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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