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Why Everything You're Trying Isn't Working
The Constraint in Your Marriage
Dec 18
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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The Relationship Thermostat
Why Your Marriage Keeps Returning to the Same Temperature
Dec 15
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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The Physics of Marriage
What Quantum Mechanics Reveals About Drift
Dec 14
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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The Hope Grid
Understanding the Hidden Dynamic That Shapes Your Marriage (And Saving It)
Dec 11
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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Quiet Divorce: The New Buzzword for an Old Betrayal
“Quiet divorce” is everywhere right now.
Dec 7
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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The Loop You’re In
How Marriages Move Toward Connection or Away From It
Dec 4
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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November 2025
When the Holidays Hurt
Finding Hope in the Hardest Season
Nov 30
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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The One Thing That Changes Everything
Why Gratitude Might Save Your Marriage
Nov 23
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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The Shadow Side of Love Languages
When Connection Tools Become Control Tactics
Nov 20
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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"When Did We Hit Pause?"
(And How To Find Play Again)
Nov 18
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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When Fear Drives Control
What You Can and Cannot Control in Your Marriage
Nov 13
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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Why Setbacks Feel Like Failure (And What They’re Really Telling You)
You’ve been doing everything right.
Nov 9
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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