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The Personality Excuse: When Pop Psychology Becomes a Prison
Why some of the most popular psychological frameworks are preventing real change in struggling marriages
Feb 19
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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From Powerless to Powerful: The Observer Mind, Real Regulation, and What to Do Daily
You’ve seen the damage dysregulation causes.
Feb 15
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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The Story Your Brain Is Writing About Your Marriage (And Why It's Probably Wrong)
Your spouse is 45 minutes late coming home.
Feb 12
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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Why Crisis Makes You Worse
Cognitive Load and Emotional Regulation
Feb 8
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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The Five-Year Yelling Problem
What Non-Regulation Is Costing Your Marriage
Feb 5
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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If You Know What To Do, Why Aren't You Doing It?
Here’s something I see all the time: someone knows their marriage is struggling.
Feb 1
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
January 2026
The Convenience Trap
What Your Marriage Actually Needs
Jan 29
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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Why Marriages Don’t Actually Pause (The Human Drives Framework)
You’ve heard the story a thousand times.
Jan 25
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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From Denial to Direction
How to Finally Start Saving Your Marriage
Jan 22
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
3
The 80/20 Marriage: Why Most of Your Effort Isn't Moving the Needle
You’re working so hard on your marriage.
Jan 18
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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The Complication Trap
Why Simple Beats Complex in Marriage Recovery
Jan 15
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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Trying to Do Everything, All At Once??
Why You Need Relationship Triage
Jan 11
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Lee H. Baucom, PhD
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